new territories always force to risk. and there is no chance to stay safe in the comfort zone and to develop yourself. take any life discipline as an example. to become better you need more space, energy, knowledge, wisdom, spirit and time of course.
you have to step out from every days "warm attitude" and "soft touches". and there is only one reason for that. it's about all that great processes we know in life. it's about evolution of chances in the territories you don't know yet.
so what can you sacrifice if you fail? your ego, status of your internal society, your micro kingdom? is that price for exchange to be a new person with brave character and meaningful life? shall you expect that you'll be supported or accepted on you own new stretched ways?
to be a better person there is no need for "coaching rooms" , "special trainers " ," how to be a leader" or " how to keep your speech", "things" etc. - that's secondary kind of tools. to be a person you need a brave character, soft heart and wide spirit. it will help you make your own choices and stay on the track . even when everything around you is changing. you will stay a live!
some ideas for your next moves :
find a new land -> make your choices -> set an a target -> practice your routine -> stay focused on the purpose and believe -> make changes ( words are good but action supported by words resonates much better ) -> act practically and use your "new life tools" to get results- > fix every positive step as an new fundament-> find cornerstones -> don't take any critics only trust your mentors (in case you need professional suggestions).
and now rise and shine! take your chance and remember, my friend:
1.the fundamental fact of existence is that this trust in God, this faith is the firm foundation under everything that makes life worth living. it's our light on what we can't see.
2. the act of faith is what distinguished our ancestors, set them above the crowd.
3 by faith we see the world called into existence by God's word, what we see created by what we don't see. Hebrews 11:1-3 (MSG)
one more thing....
the biggest mistake is the idea that "i will start new life tomorrow", "i will get my new life tomorrow"...and what if tomorrow never comes? so start now, catch your new life, do it now, my friend.